Friday, January 21, 2011

Someone Asked me today...

Someone asked me today that made me think. Really think about the statement that he has presented to me.

"How can you trust Him but he doesn't do anything but she can't trust me but I do something for her?"
HOW CAN YOU TRUST HIM BUT HE DOESN'T DO ANYTHING

This question really made me question myself. How do I do it? Do I really trust him?
I trust him because I know I love him, He knows that I trust him and He would not break that trust. That's what I know but I'm not really sure.

I Trust him because I love him. Is this reason enough to prove to someone that you do trust them? that you LOVE them? I don't know. Is this enough?

I'm the type of girl that won't be clingy in terms of being in a relationship. I wouldn't be all up on his grill like
"Where were you?" "Who you with?" "Why didn't you answer my calls?" that types of stuff. I'm just not like that, I trust the person that He loves me to value my trust in him. I want him to be the one who'll tell me where he is and who's he with. I don't want to be the type of girl who'll be not giving him the space he needs. If he needs GUY bonding with his friends even though we have plans, It's okay with me actually better since I know he'll enjoy himself.

I'm not the type of person who'll be jealous If I know he's with a girl or any woman. I admit I might be a little but it's normal but I wouldn't make a big deal about it. I'll even joke around with him and tease him if ever, that's just how the way I roll.

I wouldn't restrict him from anything too. Maybe in terms of vices, since as we all know not all vices are good, Well ALL vices are bad when you do too much. RIGHT?

In terms of smoking, I wouldn't want him to quit just like a snap because I know it will be hard fro him to do so. I'll give him time, little by little maybe he might quit smoking with my help if ever. In terms of drinking, If he knows his limits then Better, if he doesn't then try to talk him into his right mind. That's what I'll do.

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