What's the deal with unfriend-ing people on Facebook anyway? It's just really weird that I've noticed some of the people I know unfriending me on Facebook. Like a close friend of mine (once was a close friend but now we're like complete strangers to one another) or weirdly enough an ex of my boyfriend.
What's the deal anyway? I just don't get it and I don't know why it's bothering so much. Questions, Questions, Questions.....
Saturday, September 28, 2013
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Well this was relevant
Dating A Med Student
1. Don’t expect to see them. Ever.
My answer: Yes most of the time I don't see him and there was even a time where I didn't see him for 2 weeks or more. Especially nowadays I really don't get to see him as often as I would because he's graduating and he's always busy with his duties in school. Most of the time if I don't make the arrangement of me going to him we wouldn't see each other. That makes me question myself if its fair or right for me to do this. This was and always will be hard fact for me to handle. EVER.
2. Accept the fact they will have many affairs. With their books.
My answer: I think he spends more time with his books rather than me. Well this is an affair I can live with.
3. Learn to hide your “ew, gross” reactions when they tell you all the stuff you never wanted to know about your bodily functions.
My answer: As of now he's not telling me things like these yet or he did I don't really remember.
4. Support them when they come home after each test, upset because they failed—and gently remind them after they get their well above passing grade how unnecessary the “I’m going to fail out of medical school and never become an MD” dramatics are.
My answer: Well this is true, Sometimes its really hard to cheer him up especially if a particular quiz or exam makes him so down because he's not sure of the answers he put on it and I'm trying to be always ready for encouraging him to push on because I know he can do it!
5. Each week they will have a new illness. Some will be extremely rare, others will be more mundane. Doesn't matter. They will be certain they have it (no second opinions necessary). Med school can, and will, turn even the sanest into a hypochondriac. Date them for long enough, and you’ll become one too.
-My answer: Oh not experienced this yet :))
6. There will be weeks you’ll forget you even have a boyfriend—friends will ask how he is and you’ll say, “What? Who? Oh… right. He’s well… I think.” Read: Married To A Doctor, I Was A Lonely Newlywed…
-Most of the time I'm thinking if I can still do this, do this meaning give effort to the relationship. My friend says I'm settling and this friend tells me to "never settle" but that's not really the case.. the fact is... he's everything I hoped and prayed for and I see my future with and I just can't give up what we have because of the lack of time he gives me. I can't let go and won't let go because I love him and I want him to be my forever. cliche as it may seem but I just can't let go of him. Doubts and thoughts cloud my mind if I can do this in the long run I'm just hoping and praying to God that Stiff gives me more reason to hold on longer because sometimes I'm loosing hope to go on.
7. They’ll make you hyper-aware that germs are everywhere and on everything. Even though you used to walk into your home with your shoes on, and sit on your bed in the same clothes you just wore while riding the subway, or sat on a public bench in, you’ll become far too disgusted to ever do it again. Believe me, it’s going to get bad… you’ll watch yourself transform into the anal retentive person you swore you’d never become. And when you witness others perform these same acts that, before you began dating your med student, you spent your entire life doing too, you’ll wince and wonder, “Ew! How can they do that? Don’t they know how many germs and bacteria they’re spreading??!”
- became hyper-aware of where I sit or do because of the things he tells me that he learn from his classes. Which is really a hassle sometimes :)) Wishing I didn't know those things at all because I was perfectly okay without knowing facts about sitting on the ground and etc.
8. Romantic date = Chinese take-out in front of the TV on their 10-minute study break.
- our dates consists of just playing xbox to watching movies on my laptop there was this one time where He did his works and was reviewing with me, talk about romantic date. We haven't had a date on so long and this upsets me.
9. A vacation together consists of a trip down the street to Walgreens for new highlighters and printer paper.
- We went to Boracay last year for the vacation but as of now the vacation is nowhere to be found yet.
10. Their study habits will make you feel like a complete slacker. For them, hitting the books 8-to-10 hours a day is not uncommon, nor difficult. You’ll wonder how you ever managed to pass school on your meager one hour of studying per night.
-Every bit true I feel so down and sad because I feel like a slacker because while I do midi sequencing on my laptop he reads and reviews for his exam the whole day.
11. They’re expected to know everything. Everything! The name of the 8 billion-lettered, German sounding cell that lives in the depths of your inner ear, the technical term for the “no one’s ever heard of this disease” disease that exists only on one foot of the Southern tip of the African continent. But ask them if your knee is swollen, or what you should do to tame your mucous-filled cough, or why the heck your head feels like someone’s been drilling through it for oil for two weeks straight, and they won’t have a clue.
- Well I helped him review for some of his quizzes and honestly all the terms are so confusing and overwhelming that after sometime I want him to not really talk about school but in terms of him not knowing what I'm feeling, when I tell him how I'm feeling he already knows what I'm feeling or gives me instruction to do and of course he want me to go to the Doctor as early as possible if I feel something that he doesn't know about.
12. “My brain’s filled with so much information, I can’t be expected to remember THAT!” will be the standard excuse for forgetting anniversaries, birthdays, and, if you get this far, probably the birth of your first-born. Read: Having A Baby Improved My Sex Life
- Well in terms of forgetting he's much more keen on dates than I am there wasn't a time that he forgot my birthday or anniversary, mostly It's me who forgets our special occasions well he's not the only one who's busy with school, I'm Graduating too.
13. You’ll need friends with unending patience who pretend never to get sick of listening to your endless venting and complaints. Or, you’ll need to pay a therapist who will pretend never to get sick of listening to your endless venting and complaints. But take this all with a grain of salt. It’s not like I’m speaking from experience or anything…
- My friends I think are so fed up of me venting to them so I tend to keep all of my problems and complaints to myself unless my best friend or someone asks me about what I feel then I'm gonna vent. I swear when you're dating a med student you'll never EVER stop complaining and most of the time you just learn to adapt and adjust yourself to their lifestyle which is what I've been trying to do for the past 2 years and almost 7 months of our relationship. I think it's better also to have a life other than them because If you're like me who relies to much on their partner it's going to be a problem. As of now I'm trying out new things and new environments to have myself a life other than a girlfriend. I'm hanging out with mostly my guy friends who are introducing me to online shooting games which really excites the hell out of me. :)))
1. Don’t expect to see them. Ever.
My answer: Yes most of the time I don't see him and there was even a time where I didn't see him for 2 weeks or more. Especially nowadays I really don't get to see him as often as I would because he's graduating and he's always busy with his duties in school. Most of the time if I don't make the arrangement of me going to him we wouldn't see each other. That makes me question myself if its fair or right for me to do this. This was and always will be hard fact for me to handle. EVER.
2. Accept the fact they will have many affairs. With their books.
My answer: I think he spends more time with his books rather than me. Well this is an affair I can live with.
3. Learn to hide your “ew, gross” reactions when they tell you all the stuff you never wanted to know about your bodily functions.
My answer: As of now he's not telling me things like these yet or he did I don't really remember.
4. Support them when they come home after each test, upset because they failed—and gently remind them after they get their well above passing grade how unnecessary the “I’m going to fail out of medical school and never become an MD” dramatics are.
My answer: Well this is true, Sometimes its really hard to cheer him up especially if a particular quiz or exam makes him so down because he's not sure of the answers he put on it and I'm trying to be always ready for encouraging him to push on because I know he can do it!
5. Each week they will have a new illness. Some will be extremely rare, others will be more mundane. Doesn't matter. They will be certain they have it (no second opinions necessary). Med school can, and will, turn even the sanest into a hypochondriac. Date them for long enough, and you’ll become one too.
-My answer: Oh not experienced this yet :))
6. There will be weeks you’ll forget you even have a boyfriend—friends will ask how he is and you’ll say, “What? Who? Oh… right. He’s well… I think.” Read: Married To A Doctor, I Was A Lonely Newlywed…
-Most of the time I'm thinking if I can still do this, do this meaning give effort to the relationship. My friend says I'm settling and this friend tells me to "never settle" but that's not really the case.. the fact is... he's everything I hoped and prayed for and I see my future with and I just can't give up what we have because of the lack of time he gives me. I can't let go and won't let go because I love him and I want him to be my forever. cliche as it may seem but I just can't let go of him. Doubts and thoughts cloud my mind if I can do this in the long run I'm just hoping and praying to God that Stiff gives me more reason to hold on longer because sometimes I'm loosing hope to go on.
7. They’ll make you hyper-aware that germs are everywhere and on everything. Even though you used to walk into your home with your shoes on, and sit on your bed in the same clothes you just wore while riding the subway, or sat on a public bench in, you’ll become far too disgusted to ever do it again. Believe me, it’s going to get bad… you’ll watch yourself transform into the anal retentive person you swore you’d never become. And when you witness others perform these same acts that, before you began dating your med student, you spent your entire life doing too, you’ll wince and wonder, “Ew! How can they do that? Don’t they know how many germs and bacteria they’re spreading??!”
- became hyper-aware of where I sit or do because of the things he tells me that he learn from his classes. Which is really a hassle sometimes :)) Wishing I didn't know those things at all because I was perfectly okay without knowing facts about sitting on the ground and etc.
8. Romantic date = Chinese take-out in front of the TV on their 10-minute study break.
- our dates consists of just playing xbox to watching movies on my laptop there was this one time where He did his works and was reviewing with me, talk about romantic date. We haven't had a date on so long and this upsets me.
9. A vacation together consists of a trip down the street to Walgreens for new highlighters and printer paper.
- We went to Boracay last year for the vacation but as of now the vacation is nowhere to be found yet.
10. Their study habits will make you feel like a complete slacker. For them, hitting the books 8-to-10 hours a day is not uncommon, nor difficult. You’ll wonder how you ever managed to pass school on your meager one hour of studying per night.
-Every bit true I feel so down and sad because I feel like a slacker because while I do midi sequencing on my laptop he reads and reviews for his exam the whole day.
11. They’re expected to know everything. Everything! The name of the 8 billion-lettered, German sounding cell that lives in the depths of your inner ear, the technical term for the “no one’s ever heard of this disease” disease that exists only on one foot of the Southern tip of the African continent. But ask them if your knee is swollen, or what you should do to tame your mucous-filled cough, or why the heck your head feels like someone’s been drilling through it for oil for two weeks straight, and they won’t have a clue.
- Well I helped him review for some of his quizzes and honestly all the terms are so confusing and overwhelming that after sometime I want him to not really talk about school but in terms of him not knowing what I'm feeling, when I tell him how I'm feeling he already knows what I'm feeling or gives me instruction to do and of course he want me to go to the Doctor as early as possible if I feel something that he doesn't know about.
12. “My brain’s filled with so much information, I can’t be expected to remember THAT!” will be the standard excuse for forgetting anniversaries, birthdays, and, if you get this far, probably the birth of your first-born. Read: Having A Baby Improved My Sex Life
- Well in terms of forgetting he's much more keen on dates than I am there wasn't a time that he forgot my birthday or anniversary, mostly It's me who forgets our special occasions well he's not the only one who's busy with school, I'm Graduating too.
13. You’ll need friends with unending patience who pretend never to get sick of listening to your endless venting and complaints. Or, you’ll need to pay a therapist who will pretend never to get sick of listening to your endless venting and complaints. But take this all with a grain of salt. It’s not like I’m speaking from experience or anything…
- My friends I think are so fed up of me venting to them so I tend to keep all of my problems and complaints to myself unless my best friend or someone asks me about what I feel then I'm gonna vent. I swear when you're dating a med student you'll never EVER stop complaining and most of the time you just learn to adapt and adjust yourself to their lifestyle which is what I've been trying to do for the past 2 years and almost 7 months of our relationship. I think it's better also to have a life other than them because If you're like me who relies to much on their partner it's going to be a problem. As of now I'm trying out new things and new environments to have myself a life other than a girlfriend. I'm hanging out with mostly my guy friends who are introducing me to online shooting games which really excites the hell out of me. :)))
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